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In The Eight Priniciples of Buddhism…
…because love is other-concerned, has no hierarchy, and does not cherish self-vindication, having guidelines for intimate relationships seems necessary in the modern world; it seems people are falling “in” love “with” each other every minute.

I find myself wanting desperately to be “in love” or “in a relationship” that I am supposed to be non-attached to (regardless of the other party). I want to be part of something that’s filled with love, built on love, exudes love, and just is. But daily life and humbling leads to frustration when I don’t get what I want, when things go wrong, when someone hurts my feelings. And then I have forgotten. So this is the meditation I remind myself with (or at least try to). I usually stand in front of a mirror and read them aloud, but seeing as where I live now there is no mirror anywhere fairly private, I usually sit on my bed in the lotus position or go outside on my roof and sit and read them aloud. Sometimes I have to read them ten time before they sink in…again.

May I consider all beings precious.

May I always respect others as superior while attaining self-esteem.

May I face my inner darkness and turn it to good.

May I be moved with compassion for the pain behind the spite others may show me.

When I am hurt by others, may I forego retaliation while always fighting injustice.

May I reckon those who betray me as sacred teachers.

May I offer joy to all beings and secretly take on their suffering.

May all beings and I be free from ego concerns of loss and gain.

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